Sexy

is having complete control of one’s body. I don’t think anyone can have control of something they’re insecure about.

I feel sexiest when I’m walking and when I’m dancing because this is when I’m exercising this control to the fullest, balancing between exhibitionism and social invisibility. This is why I, as many do, find drunkenness unattractive—drunk people have little to no physical control and, often, only malicious sober people who want to take advantage of their drunkenness or other drunk people pursue them.

Sexy is an art that can neither be validated or invalidated by the interests of others. Sexy is also, as many things are, a privilege in that confidence and control have as much to do with mentality as they do with social surroundings.